Being a friend

When a friend acts like a dick (not dock, or sick, you idiotic Google keyboard!), how do you respond?

  1. Like a dick
  2. Ignore them
  3. Ignore dick behaviour, and respond normally

1 & 2 are easy. And I’m some kind of master ninja at #2. But I’m thinking of going with 3.

If I can’t get over a friend being a dick, might as well not call them a friend in the first place.

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What a warm bundle does to you..

I have to leave for a vacation in 2 hours, and I haven’t been sadder in months.

I’m not happy about leaving for a long planned, much desired vacation.

The boy is snuggled tight against my chest, deep asleep. Little does the gentle soul know that his MA & Pa are heading off for 8 days without him.

The in laws are here, and he’ll be OK with them, at least after the first 48 hours. Yet, I spent last night waking up to nightmares about stuff happening to him – stuff ranging from probable to nearly impossible in real life.

I should sleep, but I can’t. Don’t want to waste a single minute of his soft, smelly, warm presence while I have it.

A so so day

Beach at Seven Sisters country park
Beach at Seven Sisters country park

Bad: United didn’t win, at home.
Good: United didn’t lose. At home.

Bad: in laws flinching on realising their favourite Rahman song on the car stereo is in Hindi
Good: they grit their teeth and try to survive, without complaining or commenting about it. (Also, #smallvictory for me after my house’s primary language has been turned into one I don’t get a word of)

Bad: went to a clean beach on a hot day, but I didn’t get to swim, at all!
Good: Chewie got to swim. And he swam, and swam, and swam ☺

Bad: 3+ hours to drive a 90 min drive, thanks to holiday traffic.
Good: The destination.

Annexe 325

Annexe 325 was my room number second year in Joka. Accidental discovery of that fading 325 on that old tee brought back some fond memories.

Also found this other tee in the stash. Another one from Joka days, so at least 9 years old. And just like the first one, this is the first time in 6-7 years that I can fit in it :)

My room number during first year in Joka? C-306